We’ve been married almost three and a half years. It hasn’t been easy. We’ve both had to learn a new way of life with someone after living through trauma, doubt, loneliness and grief. I’m not excluding the good times we’ve experienced or the people we’ve shared our lives with. The happy times. But those aren’t usually the things you lug into a marriage, pulling behind you in a trail worn duffle bag or oversized piece of luggage not meant for difficult trails. We’ve had to unpack. Be vulnerable. ... VIEW POST